Gender Inclusive Vibrator Guide
If you feel totally overwhelmed when it comes to shopping for your sexual health, you are not alone! Wandering into a sex toy shop can feel like you've entered a new dimension full of phallic plastics. It can be intimidating to talk about your sexual needs with a sales associate you just met and it’s hard to figure out which product is right for you. Luckily, with the amazingness that is online shopping, you can now shop for a vibe from the comfort of your home. And to make things super easy, we've compiled a list of 10 great, body-safe, vibrators you can buy online as a gift for yourself, a partner, or a bestie. Just make sure that if you're giving a vibe as a gift that you have a conversation with the recipient beforehand to make sure they're cool with it (¡because consent is muy importante!) As the CEO and Co-Founder of sex toy company Unbound, it's my mission to make sexual wellness accessible through affordable products, elevated design, and educational content. Here are some of my favorite products right now.
LELO Sona is a new type of toy that doesn’t use vibration. Instead, this vibe uses sonic waves and pulsation to stimulate the clitoris. Start by holding the vibe directly over the hood of the clitoris but not directly touching it. Each person has a different level of clitoral sensitivity, so you can edge the opening of the vibe closer to the clitoris if you want more stimulation. The Sona has eight different settings and is waterproof as well.
Zip is the perfect beginner vibe. Comin' in hot at $18, this bullet, clitoral vibrator is incredibly affordable and body safe. It’s important to check the ingredients before buying a vibrator because the category isn’t regulated by the FDA. You want to make sure there are no parabens or phthalates and it should be medical grade silicone. Zip is one speed and comes with batteries so there’s no need pilfer your roommate’s remote to enjoy.
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Ollie is Unbound’s brand new wand vibrator. Wands are historically adored vibrator aficionados because of the insanely rumbly vibrations and powerful motors. TBH I was not sold until I tried a wand and then I was like, “Ohhhh… okay. Now I get it.” Ollie is great for strong, broad clitoral stimulation can easily be used solo or with a partner. This vibe also has USB magnetic charging, 8 speeds and patterns, and is 100% waterproof. The circular bulb of the wand is covered in ultra soft medical grade silicone. Accio Orgasm!! (get it?! Bc, it’s a wand!!!)
Bean is also great for beginners. At $36, this palm-sized vibe provides both targeted and broad clitoral stimulation with it’s rounded, elliptical shape. Bean offers 6 vibration patterns so you can switch it up and see what level of strength and pattern works for you. It’s also waterproof and comes with a 1-year warranty. Don’t let the cute name fool you, this vibe packs a mean punch!
Lioness was started by two badass women in California and it’s basically the Fitbit of vibrators. While it may look like another dual-stimulating vibe — it’s more than that. The Lioness vibe comes with an app that allows you to track and learn more about your orgasm, including an actual visualization of your orgasm. You can literally make your orgasm into art, which is pretty damn cool if you ask me. Which you didn’t, but like, you get it.
Iroha Kushi by Tenga is on this list because of the thoughtful product and packaging design. Also, because I want to squeeze the living daylight out of it just looking at it! This vibe is made by Tenga, one of the biggest sex toy companies to come out of Japan. They pride themselves on elevated design. The pointed end of this vibe is great for targeted external stimulation. It’s also USB rechargeable so no batteries are needed.
Shotpocket isn’t a vibrator, but it is amazing. This product is a 100% non-toxic, medical grade silicone sleeve made for trans guys who may be on testosterone and experiencing some growth. Its ribbed core has a suction functionality that allows it to stay on and also feels amazing. AND because it works best with a water-based lube, each Shotpocket comes with a sample.
We-vibe Unite is a couples vibrator that can be worn during penetrative sex. The vibe curves around the mons pubis (where the pubic hair is above the clitoris) and curves around, inserting itself into a vaginal opening. It’s slim enough that you can have penetrative sex while also receiving clitoral stimulation. It also comes with a remote, is splashproof and USB rechargeable. We-Vibe is known for their innovative, high quality vibrators that are design centric.
Je Joue G-Kii is a g-spot vibrator. Historically, there has been a lot of debate surrounding the g-spot. Is it real or mythical like a unicorn? The name has nothing to do with the anatomy, rather, it’s named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg who introduced us to the erogenous zone back in the 1940s. The debate mostly centers on whether the g spot is simply the internal clitoris vs. a separate entity. One thing is for sure, stimulating this area of the front wall of your vagina (typically 1-3 inches in) can yield amazing pleasure. Je Joue’s G-Kii is great for discovering this part of your body because the curve of the vibrator is flexible, allowing you to increase or decrease the angle of stimulation based on what works for you.
Vibratex Sidekick Sleeve this amazing sleeve can be used by those with penises to enhance your masturbation experience! It’s made with elastomer, a durable, hypo-allergenic soft plastic free of phthalates. Also, it’s super important to use a water-based lube with your sleeve to reduce friction and potential chafing. After use, simply wash the sleeve with soap and water — or a toy cleaner.
