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We all know that before you bring in a partner, you have to perfect the art of self-love alone. We're talking about “masturdating,” or taking yourself out on solo dates as a practice in self care. What did you think we meant?
You might have seen people on TikTok posting about masturdating, showing off how they court themselves. You can do amazing and cool things that highlight your hobbies, joys, and pleasure. Basically, it’s a great way to reacquaint you with yourself and to connect with your heart on a deeper level. Largely, masturdating is about showing yourself love and nurturing your own happiness, independent of a romantic relationship with a partner.
Interested? Here's a guide on how to masturdate by zodiac sign:
Aries
A fun activity like roller skating or rollerblading will get your blood pumping and be an exhilarating way to reconnect with yourself. Wear your best Barbiecore fit, hit the boardwalk or your local streets, and make a mix with your favorite jams to skate to. The thrilling adventure in the great outdoors is guaranteed to put a smile on your face.
Taurus
The key to your heart is through your belly, which is why you’ll find delight in taking a cooking class. Creating the ultimate meal for yourself under the guidance of a professional chef is the ultimate romance and the best way to show yourself TLC. You can save the leftovers and keep the self love going.
Gemini
Like Miley Cyrus says, you can buy yourself flowers. Since you’re a spring baby, you’ll cherish the chance to DIY a bouquet of fresh flowers at the local farmer’s market or flower shop. You can even try out a floral arrangement class. Not only will this add flair and fragrance to your home, but your creation will brighten your day every time you look at it.
Cancer
One of your favorite places to hang out is the beach thanks to your crabby nature. The sea makes you feel like the rocking crustacean that you are, as it’ll wash away your worries and allow you be at peace. A lovely walk on the shore at sunset gives you the chance to embrace your water sign spirit by enhancing your intuition and soulfulness.
Leo
Your dramatic senses will be quenched by treating yourself to dinner and a movie. You’ll find that laughing to a light rom com, singing to songs while at a musical, or getting super emotional at a more theatrical movie will give you the space you need to really feel your feelings. You can laugh, cry, and sing freely without any judgmental eyes. Add in dinner after the movie as an extra treat.
Virgo
Your Mercurial brain could use a break from the day-to-day stresses of life. Book a spa day for one and let your troubles melt away by detoxing your mind from all the anxieties and issues that consume you. A massage, facial, seat in a salt cave, or dip in a heated pool will open up your body and spirit, allowing the positive vibes to flow freely within yourself.
Libra
Explore your creative side by learning from some of the best artists of all time. Head to a museum and wander around at your leisure to explore the ingenuity and skills of painters, sculptors, and visual artists from the past and present. You’ll revel in the beauty of the craftmanship and genius of the techniques they used. You may even be influenced to change up your aesthetic as a result.
Scorpio
Since you love solving riddles and are always looking for a deeper meaning, the best date you could ever take yourself on is to an escape room built for one. Your brain will be excited and delighted to be challenged by the intensity of the program. Also, you’ll enjoy being put to the task of exploring and finding meaning to situations that push you to the absolute limit.
Sagittarius
IKYK, and you're certainly a know-it-all. But, sometimes your ability to win at game night can overshadow a few of your friends who aren't as “in the know” as you are. Therefore, trivia night is a great activity to do solo because you can let everyone else know how much knowledge you hold in your mind without having to be competitive with your besties.
Capricorn
Being that you are always working to attain and maintain an A average, a nice way to treat yourself is to have a cup of coffee and desert in the park. Relishing in the quiet bliss while sipping your elegant espresso and eating a yummy piece of cake under a tree is your idea of relaxing. It’ll give you a chance to chill and reflect without any disturbances from others.
Aquarius
You’re always one step ahead of your crew, but sometimes you long to kick it old school when in your own company. All the more reason for you to head out to an arcade and play some of the great video games of yesteryear. You just need a handful of coins and stamina to leave your mark — also, to have the best date ever with the most awesome person (YOU!).
Pisces
Stargazing is an ideal activity to treat yourself to because it aligns you with the mystical and natural world. You can lay out under the sky on a blanket and stare at constellations. Look at the cosmos to see if you can spot planets that evoke your romantic and magical senses. You can even use this as a chance to enhance your energy and vibe from laying under the moon.
